Mastering Polarities Extra, Part 2: The 12 Moves

Aviv Shahar with David Price Francis

July 6, 2023

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It’s time we take the next big step forward on the path of mastering one of the most troublesome roadblocks standing in the way of our well-being, resilience, refinement and connection to higher intelligence and new emerging universal possibility. 

We know from recent Portals conversations and practices that polarities — often highly charged and emotional divisions appearing across our cultural and political experience — can be a powerful energy vortex. It’s easy to get drawn in and be captured by the heated rhetoric and media portrayals around right/left, liberal/conservative, men/women, rich/poor…the list is endless.

Fortunately, as we learn in this conversation, there are equally potent steps and strategies to not only release ourselves from the polarity trap, but transform a charged and divided circumstance into a way forward to new integration, perception and potential.

Aviv Shahar and longtime Portals friend David Price Francis, who cohost the series Current Openings: What the World Doesn’t Quite Get Yet, reveal that as long as we’re alive on this planet, polarities will be our companion. Among their insights and counsel for moving forward:

  • A martial artist of polarity mastery will create in themselves pre-event integrations, with ready-made responses to address polarized occasions; being prepared prevents being surprised.
  • Don't let the rewards of reaching a goal turn out to be the warden of your jail. We tend to get a trophy, and the trophy becomes atrophy; we stopped our continuation.
  • There needs to be a third space, or vector, to be a witness; to get enough of an awareness to say, “Hang on a minute; take a deep breath.” It’s using the law of polarity to move forward.
  • Life is not a static equilibrium; it’s ongoing, on the move, a work in progress; continually shape shifting every day, in every moment. We need to have all these polarity releasing moves available.
  • When we actually have a purpose, an aim, and some consciousness about what we're heading toward, then we are able to work with polarities to support our life’s passion.
  • We need to say “no” many times to facilitate the one central thread of our life we want to say “yes” to. The “no” power gets exhausted; we need to recharge the “no” battery, a very important power in supporting our journey.
  • If a person wants the truth, they need to prepare their systems to integrate with truth rather than bias; it’s a daily practice. This itself would release polarity, which cannot capture truth.

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12 Polarity Moves

This is the simplest way to recognize — guess what? — you're alive, you're human; you will find time and again that you've been activated and triggered by something. If you take the developmental inclination, you say, ‘Great; I have another opportunity to be exposed to my weakness, to what triggers me. I want to learn from it and develop a better, stronger inner formation so I'm more resilient and adaptive.’  

Aviv Shahar

David Price Francis

David Price Francis

David Price Francis helps individuals, couples, and groups understand and improve the quality of energy in their personal lives and relationships using techniques and strategies that he has successfully developed in private practice working with clients for over forty years. He is the author of Go With The Glow: From Psychological Pain to Spiritual HappinessPartners in Passion: How To Positively Transform the Energies in all Your RelationshipsThe Tales of Dr. Woo: A Journey into Truth; and a 10-part online course, “The Human Aura: A Practical Introduction To Your Personal Energy Field.” 


Aviv Shahar

Aviv Shahar

Aviv is the Founder of Aviv Consulting, helping leaders unleash strategic innovation, and is the author of Create New Futures: How Leaders Produce Breakthroughs and Transform the World Through Conversation.

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