The Human as a Fountain of Encouragement and Hope, Part 5
The Human as a Fountain of Encouragement and Hope, Part 5

Aviv Shahar with Lisa Marcus, Trevor Winn, Perry Martin, Miriam Abrahamson, Karen Heney, and George Goumas

July 23, 2021
encouragement and hope

There are many ways, many practices, which allow us to encourage and instill hope in our families, friends, and the people we may meet every day. The more ways we can find to offer hope and encouragement, the better. We live in a cynical world which often makes people feel weak and lesser than who they are, a world that diminishes self-esteem. It works by distancing us from who we are and instilling in us the need to crave something we don’t need to crave.

An example of a practice I often use, maybe with a senior executive or even a child, is to encourage that person by giving them back their best, giving them back their core essence. Sometimes in a word, sometimes in a gesture; sometimes actually formulating a language and observation in a way that 

perhaps has never been seen before. We become the people we become through the recognition, and the grace, and the help of others.

This conversation is a weave of experiences from teachers, parents, and people who were touched and who touched others in moments where all that was needed was a little bit of help, with encouragement and hope, and how central these qualities are in our lives.

Never give up on somebody. I believe the effort of not giving up is what we all need. I don’t want somebody to give up on me. I don’t want to give up on my family. If that gets into the world, with whatever comes after, it’s important for that to live in you.

Trevor Winn

Miriam Abrahamson

Miriam Abrahamson

Education, art and music have always intrigued me, all leading to and stemming from the great wonder and burning need to find out what being human portends, what I could do and who I could be, what felt right and what felt wrong. I was aware yet didn't know how to articulate the strong dissonances that life around me seemed to be so full of.

There was so much beauty and softness yet so much cruelty and pain.

Since then, I am still researching this unique gift of being human, working towards establishing life- aligned- education for children, and for all…

I believe that within the search of what our human existence is about, are the answers to how we should best proceed in these times of great possibility sided by the breakdown and crisis that we are experiencing all over the world.

Trevor Winn

Trevor Winn

It’s the seemingly simple experiences of life that had the most impact when very young, like lying on the green hills looking at the white clouds, being with the snow in winter, feeling the cold, sitting by the fireplace, being with the wonder of night, walking, the warmth of others, and then later on, the thrill of travel and the curiosity that motivated me to live and work in various countries.

And now it is to feel useful, to share experience, to have good conversation, to explore what provides life and how that works, my relationship and partnership with myself, the planet, and beyond, being in the quest of being in the place that enables truths to be perceived, connections to be made, remaining open to the requirements of these times in which for me, attitude and sentiment are core elements.

Lisa Marcus

Lisa Marcus

At home, we were always encouraged to ask the more enigmatic questions of life. Why am I here? Where did I come from? Where will I go at the end of my life? And the biggest question of all, What is my part to play in the great canvas of life?

Enchanted by the many different cultures and peoples from around the world, during my youth I traveled through my trusty Encyclopedia Britannica. Then came the wondrous day that I was able to travel by airplane. Committed to being a "Champion of Warmth," I continue my travels and interactions with others from all around the world, as together we create a "bouquet of humanity;" one that connects and offers companionship as we step into the future.

Aviv Shahar

Aviv Shahar

Aviv is the Founder of Aviv Consulting, helping leaders unleash strategic innovation, and is the author of Create New Futures: How Leaders Produce Breakthroughs and Transform the World Through Conversation.

Karen Heney

Karen Heney

From an early age there has been a compelling search for truths, those realities that didn’t have a fixing or a closed door. The quest for meaning, sometimes quiet, other times reaching and finding pathways, has always accompanied me. The awareness that all life is caused to exist for an inherent purpose, one that allows for the possibility of furtherance and refinement, has prompted both perceptions and questions. These concern the purpose of human life, its integration within greater domains and what I personally may need to discover in order to play my part.

Creativity has always been integral, with an endeavour to create visual interpretations of concepts as practical activities. The intention behind a current project is to broaden the paths of relevance and meaning for others to access and explore.

George Goumas

George Goumas

Many days, early in the morning, I am awake to see the dawn, to feel the vibration of nature as everything becomes alive. I close my eyes for a moment and let the energy join the life inside me. It is a declaration of continuance of a journey with peaks and valleys, passion, and wisdom.

Being a parent, having real friends, searching through psychology, behavioral sciences, exploring sacred body movements, trying to unlock creative dynamics in every impediment helped me craft my way.

Today, I know what I don't want to have, to do, to be. Promising myself to be diligent, agile, buoyant, and keen to discover the flow of reasonings that will lead me to join a universal consciousness.

Waiting for people of kind to enrich our collective intelligence with their talent and uniqueness.

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